Pull For Pride

“Couches Don’t Count:” The Hidden Homeless

Not all homeless youth sleep on the streets or go to shelters. Sometimes, being homeless looks a little different, and it’s harder to see.


Every year in Philadelphia, a survey called Philadelphia Youth Count is conducted by Valley Youth House, the beneficiary of the Stewartstown, Pennsylvania Pull for Pride event. In collaboration with other community partners, Valley Youth House seeks out homeless youth and surveys their experiences in order to estimate the size of the population in need of housing and other critical support services.


Their most recent survey results indicate that as many as 64% of homeless youth couch surf or stay with friends or acquaintances rather than sleep on the street. They live temporarily with others, possibly even staying with a different friend, relative, neighbor, acquaintance, or stranger each night. Youth Count surveys have also found that at least 53% of these youth are LGBTQ- higher than the national estimates of 40%, which we know to be conservative.


These youth aren’t sleeping on the street like many of us typically imagine a homeless person does. But there’s no guarantee of their continued residency in these temporary stays, and no immediate prospects to access permanent housing. It’s not a sustainable long-term living arrangement.


The National Coalition for the Homeless refers to these youth as “couch-homeless,” also sometimes referred to as the “hidden homeless.” They’re considered “hidden” because they usually don’t access services at homeless support organizations, and since they’re not accessing services, they don’t show up in most standard statistics.


LGBTQ youth who trade sex for shelter are also a hidden population. Craig Hughes of the Coalition for Homeless Youth notes that the federal definition of homelessness does not include youth who trade sex for shelter. There are thousands who go uncounted," Hughes says. "They are disconnected from services, sleep on multiple couches a month and spend some nights trading sex for shelter."


Couches don’t count as stable housing. Sleeping in a car doesn’t count as stable housing. Staying with one friend, acquaintance, stranger until you feel unwelcome doesn’t count as stable housing. None of these are good enough for our youth, and we must do better.


You can help by donating to, lifting at, or volunteering with Pull for Pride.


By Erica Smith, M.Ed for Women’s Strength Coalition

Sources: Valley Youth House, Coalition for Homeless Youth


In accordance with our mission of using our collective strength to benefit the world in a meaningful way, The Women’s Strength Coalition’s June 2018 Pull for Pride Fundraiser will benefit select organizations that provide direct support to LGBTQ youth struggling with homelessness.


Learn more about our beneficiary organizations below:



Pull For Pride registration is open! Go to PullForPride.com to register.


Atlanta: Saturday, June 16th 

New York City: Saturday, June 16th
@MurderofCrowsBarbellClub  @CrowHillCrossfit

D.C.: Saturday, June 9th
@BalanceGym (Thomas Circle Location)

Richmond, Virginia: Saturday, June 16th

Minneapolis: Saturday, June 23rd

San Diego: Saturday, June 16th

Pennsylvania: Saturday, June 16th

About The Author

Erica Smith

Erica Smith is a sexuality educator with a M.Ed. from Widener University’s Center for Human Sexuality Studies. Based in Philadelphia, she works primarily with young women and queer and transgender youth in the juvenile justice and child welfare systems. She writes, consults, and teaches on a variety of human sexuality topics and has been recognized by Lambda Legal and Women’s Way for her advocacy for LGBTQ youth and young women. Erica began lifting in 2008. She has experience competing in powerlifting and strongman, but kettlebells are her first love.